Hi all, Just wanted to get down some stuff I just learned about. It's all about the people you have come into contact with over the span of your life. Relationships, friends, family, etc. You need to take the good and bad parts of all the people that make up your history and learn and grow from those experiences.
I will admit, it is very difficult for someone who likes to have control (Type A), but in the end it makes you a much more vibrant and interesting person. No good can come from being negative and vengeful.. all that does is bring down you as a person and it does not help anything. Expressing your feelings is a healthy and good thing to do.. and it is encouraged.. it helps clear your mind and get you back on track. Try not to be too harsh though, revisionist history does no good.
You might want this or that, but what you can't control will NOT kill you.. use it to better yourself and grow. Move past the past and onto the future. Take the good parts of people you have met and use them as examples the better your self, and use the bad parts to grow from. I guess what I'm trying to say is that after a set back or a bad experience it is normal to have ups and downs, get angry, get sad.. its all very normal. But as I am learning.. I admit very slowly... it's easier said than done. To assist... a strong family core, good friends, or a counselor specializing in your particular area all all good options to seek out for help.
All the trivial shit in your life seems pointless when you are confronted with a very sick family member. It really opens your eyes to the realities of life sometimes.
I am still learning and growing as a person and at times it's difficult.. but the pay off of living a healthy and productive life, being there for your family and accomplishing great things at work.. well it's all worth it.
Now.. if doing the work to get to that place was easy.. ;)
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